Wednesday, March 5, 2008
Parents Love Your Children
One question that seems to come up frequently is "What is wrong with children today?" I believe it is very simple. They need love, guidance, and attention: which should really be one in the same. When a child walks out into the world without their parents for the first time they have to make sense of what the world is telling them. The advertisements that float around our media tells children that sex sells. It seems an adult's job is to find themselves a lover and be held tightly and kissed and this is the whole secret to life. Sex seems to replace love and still go by the same name and the definition of both get lost along the way. This is where the parents should be. Children need to know that they are important and should settle for no less than the best because they are irreplaceable. They need to be armored with love and the knowledge that the future is affected by your everyday choices. I believe that if a father spends time with his daughter, and a mother spends time with her son, they child will understand the opposite sex a little more. They will know what to look for when looking for a marriage. I'm warning you. If children don't get more love than whatever is going on today, the will grow up and then the alarm that had tricked them into marriage proved to be groundless, they will be angry and say bitter and hurtful things.
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Hi Wine_0....Im curious about that name??? Anyways I was commenting back to let you know that I totally agree. My father didn't show my any type of affection as a child. At 15, I went to live with another family in the city. I was so lonely and sad that I sought refuge with the only person who seem to have an ounce of compassion for me, David Hardy, who is now my husband. Don't think this is a happy ending for a mistreated child because now I am an ignored wife of a work-a-holic. I am bitter because it feels like I'm back where I started.....alone. I have a little boy, David. Sadly, I resent my father so much for not loving his little girl, that I can't love my little boy. I know, sad right? This proves parents do need to love their children so that children can grow into parents and love THEIR children.
Creativegrl07 said....
I completely understand what you are trying to say. I have been lead to believe that everything I do is somehow not good enough. When I wasn’t getting the proper education, I was sent away by my father. Although I know he was just trying to do what he thought was best, I somehow feel as if he didn’t want me around. Then once arriving at the Hardy household I was greeted by two girls who seem to have it out for me and I can’t even began to understand why. All I want is someone to love me and I want to love someone. There is nothing more that I wish for.
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